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The ONE Thing That Will Make or Break Your Goals (and It's Not What You Think)

September 02, 20245 min read

In the pursuit of our dreams and aspirations, we often get caught up in complex strategies, elaborate plans, and the search for the "perfect" approach to goal-setting. But amidst all the noise and advice, there's one fundamental truth that often gets overlooked:

The only thing that truly matters in achieving your goals is taking consistent and uncomfortable action.

It's not about having the most elaborate plan or the most inspiring vision board. It's not about knowing every single step or having all the answers. It's about showing up every day, even when it's hard, even when you're tired, even when you're facing setbacks or self-doubt.

Action: The Bridge Between Dreams and Reality

Think of your goals as a destination you want to reach. You can spend hours researching the best route, packing the perfect backpack, and visualizing the breathtaking view from the summit. But none of that matters if you don't actually start walking.

Action is the bridge that connects your dreams to reality. It's the fuel that propels you forward, the momentum that keeps you going, even when the path gets steep or the weather turns stormy.

Why Action is So Powerful

  1. Builds Confidence: Every step you take, no matter how small, reinforces your belief in your ability to achieve your goals.

  2. Creates Momentum: Consistent action creates a snowball effect, making it easier to stay motivated and overcome obstacles.

  3. Provides Feedback: Taking action allows you to learn from your experiences, adjust your approach, and make course corrections along the way.

  4. Generates Results: Ultimately, it's action, not intention, that leads to tangible results and brings your dreams to life.

Overcoming the Barriers to Action

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So, why do we often struggle to take action, even when we have clear goals and a burning desire to achieve them?

  • Fear of Failure: The fear of not being good enough or making mistakes can paralyze us and prevent us from taking that first step.

  • Perfectionism: The need for everything to be "perfect" can lead to procrastination and analysis paralysis.

  • Lack of Clarity: If your goals are vague or unrealistic, it can be difficult to know where to start or how to measure progress.

  • Overwhelm: When faced with a large or complex goal, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and give up before you even begin.

Strategies for Taking Action

  1. Start Small: Break down your goals into smaller, more manageable steps. Focus on taking one small action each day that moves you closer to your goal.

  2. Embrace Imperfection: Let go of the need for everything to be perfect. Remember that progress, not perfection, is the key to success.

  3. Celebrate Your Wins: Acknowledge and celebrate your accomplishments, no matter how small they may seem. This will help you build confidence and motivation.  

  4. Find an Accountability Partner: Share your goals with a friend, family member, or coach who can support and encourage you along the way.

  5. Focus on the Process: Enjoy the journey of pursuing your goals, not just the destination. Embrace the challenges, learn from your mistakes, and celebrate your growth.

From Doubt to Dominance: The Story of Serena Williams

Serena Williams, arguably the greatest tennis player of all time, didn't achieve her legendary status by simply dreaming about it. Her journey was marked by countless hours of relentless practice, pushing her physical and mental limits day in and day out. She faced setbacks, injuries, and moments of self-doubt, but she never let those obstacles deter her from taking action.

Early in her career, critics questioned her abilities and unconventional playing style. Instead of succumbing to their negativity, she used it as fuel to train harder, play smarter, and constantly push the boundaries of her game.

Serena's story isn't just about talent; it's about unwavering dedication and the willingness to take uncomfortable action, even when it's scary or uncertain. She didn't just dream of winning Grand Slam titles; she stepped onto the court every day, facing her fears and pushing herself beyond her limits to make those dreams a reality.

Through consistent and uncomfortable action and a refusal to give up, Serena Williams shattered expectations and redefined what was possible in the world of tennis. She became a 23-time Grand Slam champion, an Olympic gold medalist, and an inspiration to millions around the world.

Her journey is a powerful reminder that action, even in the face of adversity and self-doubt, is the key to unlocking your full potential.

Conclusion:

Remember, the only thing that truly matters in achieving your goals is taking consistent and uncomfortable action.

Little steps over time lead to big results, which is why you want to be consistent. The uncomfortable part is doing what you are afraid of. The things that you aren't yet skilled in or have done before.

When you focus on this ONE thing when it comes to achieving your goals, great things will happen in your life. Maybe not right away, but over time results will accumulate and you'll be in a postion you once dreamed of.

Don't let fear, perfectionism, or overwhelm hold you back. Embrace the journey, celebrate your progress, and keep moving forward, one step at a time.

Your Turn:

  • What is one small action you can take today to move closer to your goals?

  • Share your commitment in the comments below and let's hold each other accountable!

Additional Resources:

Blog Post: 5 Goal-Setting Myths That Are Holding You Back and How To Break Free

Book: "The 5 Second Rule" by Mel Robbins

Book: "The Compound Effect" by Dan Hardy

Book: "The 12 Week Year" by Brian P. Moran

Book: "Atomic Habits" by James Clear

Book: "The War of Art" by Steven Pressfield

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Eddy Green

My name is Eddy. I am the adult son of a single mother who overcame an emotionally abusive relationship with her drug addict and alcoholic husband. I have overcame my own hardships, having been arrested multiple times up until I was 16 when I was expelled from my school district and almost thrown in jail. Since then I have turned my life around, overcame more hardships, and lived my life focused on growth and making an impact in the world.

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